The male will not be able to get access to his penis. So how can the dominant and the submissive take pleasure from chastity play? Obviously, punishment is the first thing to come to mind for many people. Plus, chastity play requires constant learning, understanding, and communication. You will need to consider the most private aspects of your relationship. If done correctly, chastity play can take your intimacy to a whole new level. A dominant and submissive relationship goes much deeper than simply locking up your man’s cock. Both the slave and the Mistress will need to communicate their responsibilities. In most cases, it takes a while to adjust to the chastity relationship. That means the slave should fully trust his Mistress. She holds the key to the chastity device (and hopefully a spare!). The dominant is usually named the Keyholder. One thing that makes chastity play unique in the world of BDSM is the fact that the dominant is always responsible for their slave’s safety. And above all, safety is vital in the dominant/submissive chastity relationship. On the other hand, the dominant must express her own desires and limitations. You’ll need to discuss your goals, fantasies, and limits.Īdditionally, the Keyholder has to consider their servant’s emotions and boundaries. It’s something that shouldn’t be exploited. Keep in mind that the male or the sub is essentially offering up his obedience as a gift. However, for successful chastity play, both roles will have to establish trust and set some clear boundaries. This type of power dynamic can result in sexual pleasure for the dominant, submissive, or both sides, depending on what you plan to accomplish. In essence, those devices are used on the submissive while the dominant, aka the Keyholder, is the one who decides the rules. They are used to emphasize the dominant and submissive roles. So what is the purpose of a chastity relationship? Well, chastity cages and belts are ultimately about power play. Sounds good? Keep reading to find out all about “locking the cock” and spice up your BDSM adventures with chastity play (or vice versa)! Dominant & Submissive (DS) - Femdom This kinky guide will cover every BDSM chastity-related fetish from light bondage, extreme painplay, and orgasm denial to merciless femdom and financial domination. But what are some crucial things to keep in mind as the Keyholder and the chastity slave? And is there more to this type of play than just brutal domination? And as a male slave, you’ll be desperate for her dominance and will have to satisfy her every whim. You'll be the one who decides what to do with his cock and balls along with the rest of his body and his sexual desires. As a Mistress and a chastity Keyholder, you can lock him up and put away the key. If you’ve ever tried some light bondage and are thinking about new ways in which your slave could serve you, chastity play could be the next step. She did an amazing job, loved every moment, and was just desperate for cock by the time she finished.Are you looking to control or humiliate your man and gain endless obedience from him? Do you want to take complete ownership of his cock as the Keyholder and get the power to dominate his every orgasm? What is the secret to a healthy yet infinitely kinky relationship between the chastity slave and the Keyholder? To say it was an effective training assignment is an understatement. This is a task I tested out on one of my personal sissies in training. I'll guide you through it, enticing you to crave cock more than you ever have before, and I'll even give my extra good girls an interactive option at the end.
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